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When Madonna was interviewed by Ryan SeaCrest she said, “Ryan, You are so gay you don’t even like boys.”
It is funny how guys who seem to be gay are quickly labeled and questioned. As if we really all need to know who they are sleeping with? Do we even care? But we insist on labeling people so we can put them in a box.
I was once at a club and a guy started talking to me. He mentioned at least 10 times how great it was that he was str8 acting. Finally, I couldn’t take it anymore and said, “You think you are str8 acting but you are doing a horrible job at it because you are already hitting on a gay guy.”
I have noticed how it is so important that we know if a guy is gay or not. If not, it is as if we do not know how to handle them. It is even worse when guys know who they are but they feel they must “act” a certain way to still be accepted.
Love is love.
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Bishop
on 17 Sep 2008 at 7:11 am #
Michael, you know me, and you know I never claim to be anything but who I am. For years I fabricated a little girlfriend back home. Then one day I just realized that by hiding who I was, I was displaying a shame of who I am. Well, that ended that.
The other side of that coin is I hate to be labeled as “that gay guy” or “my gay friend”. That is not all there is to my identity. I’m sure people don’t say things like “my heterosexual friend”. There is so much more to me than my sexual orientation.
Now, if someone asks if I’m gay, I just smile and say “why do you want to know?”. This usually makes them pause and re-think their question.
james mason
on 17 Sep 2008 at 6:41 pm #
HI GUYS I DO NOT CARE BUT I WOULD LOVE TO GET TO KNOW HIM AND DATE HIM JAMES XOXO