People come and go in your life all the time. It is hard with work, home, families, education and just plain responsibilities to keep in touch with everyone. A lot of times we don’t expect it but we let people go. People who came into ourselves and made it better. People who influenced who were are today but just lost touch with.

Last night I had a dream about one of my past leaders, Kevin Beaver. He taught me a lot about leadership. I know I normally talk about all the bad experiences I had because they are funny and remind us how crazy people can be. But where did I learn the good leadership qualities? Kevin was one of those leaders who taught me well.

He was young and ambitious. He showed me that it was OK to lead with your head and heart. He was so thoughtful with what he did knowing the logical choices behind his actions. He was full of energy, like me, and wasn’t afraid to be funny or have fun at work. He taught me that you need to know your value and not be afraid to stand up for yourself because if you truly deserve it, you would get it.

He was not only my leader, mentor but he was my friend. He helped me become the leader I am today. He helped me to not doubt who I was but just be who I am.

This morning I thought it was sad that we lose touch. I like to keep positive and driven people around me. It is always nice to have a strong inner circle of people you trust who support each other. Well, it is 2008 so I decided it was time to be a Google detective and find Mr Beaver. Guess what? I did! I dropped him an email and it was no longer valid. I am not giving up yet.

I believe it is never too late to reconnect with someone you lost in your life. If they are truly meant to remain apart of it, you will find a way to come back together.

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