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When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in a day are not enough, remember the jar… and the coffee…
A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in
front of him. When the class began, wordlessly, he picked up a very
large and empty jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls.
He then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it
was.
The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar.
He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas
between the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was
full.
They agreed it was.
The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar.
Of course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if
the jar was full. The students responded with a unanimous “yes.”
The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar, effectively filling the empty space between the sand. The students laughed.
“Now,” said the professor, as the laughter subsided, “I want you to
recognize that this jar represents your life.
The golf balls are the important things. Your family, your children,
your faith, your health, your friends, and your favorite passions.
Things that if everything else was lost and only they remained, your
life would still be full. The pebbles are the other things that matter.
Your job, your house, and your car. The sand is everything else. The
small stuff.
If you put the sand into the jar first,” he continued, “there is no
room for the pebbles or the golf balls. The same goes for life. If you
spend all your time and energy on the small stuff, you will never have
room for the things that are important to you.
Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Play
with your children. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your
partner out to dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to
clean the house and fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls
first, the things that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is
just sand.”
One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee
represented.
The professor smiled. “I’m glad you asked. It just goes to show you
that no matter how full your life may seem, there’s always room for a
couple of cups of coffee with a friend.”
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Daniel
on 18 Jul 2008 at 7:20 am #
Wow… That means so much to me right now. I have so many things going on in my life right now… like… soooo many things and it seems every time I finally sit down to rest, theres something else… I’m in the middle of moving and doing repairs at the old place… while working 2 jobs and getting used to the new puppy (who I wish I could borrow energy from)… right now my day consists of… waking up at 6:00am leaving for work at 7:30 working until 5:00 rushing home (across town in rush hour traffic) and getting ready for job number 2 (while playing with the puppy)… work 6:00-10:30… going home and play with the puppy and clean/ pack/ do research for work #1, etc… it just seems like so much… I’m somehow handling it well… I keep reminding myself that in a couple of weeks I will be moved into the new place and I can rest for a while… It has taken a toll on my rest and really just me in general… but I stay positive…
Once I move I am planning to get things more solidified in my life (finances, school, etc…)… The principles in your post will assist in building a good foundation for this… thank you.
-Daniel
Michael
on 18 Jul 2008 at 7:21 am #
Daniel,
Life be crazy, right? What I love is that I hear you taking control of your life and not letting life control you. That is most important.
It is great to also know you are keeping a great attitude. You choose how you will look at things and I am glad to see you choose to look at them as opportunities.
JM
on 18 Jul 2008 at 7:57 am #
That is a very good analogy and important life lesson! Sometimes I struggle making time for the important people in life when things get crazy busy. It could definitely be more of a priority for me!
Michael
on 18 Jul 2008 at 8:00 am #
JM,
I am glad it got you thinking and you will be putting them first. So important to do that.
It never hurts to bring a friend a Starbucks and just spend a few minutes chatting or maybe just get a hug that you need.