I am teaching this class this week based on the John Maxwell’s 21 Laws of Leadership. One of my favorite laws is the Law of Magnetism.

Simply it means, you can only attract the people you want (skills, abilities, values, etc) if you possess the same qualities yourself.

This is very powerful way of stop blaming others for failed relationships, friendships, employees etc and realize that you are in control of your life and you have the power to make a change.

I have a friend who tells me that when he goes out to a club, no one talks to him. I asked him, “Do you talk to people?” and he says no. Why does he expect people to talk to him if he is not willing to talk to them. You get what you attract. If he went to the club, smiled and tried to make conversation with others, he would find people to talk to. People would see he is open and want to talk to him. Instead of how he comes in the club already closed down and knowing no one will talk to him.

So you attract what you are. What could you achieve if you only worked on yourself and stopped wishing others would change?

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