A lot of people come and go throughout our lives. We make great friends and great loves, sometimes they stay with us forever or sometimes there is something not right and drift way.

This is a natural way of building healthy relationships. We need to take the time to think, ” Are the people in my life lifting me up or holding me down?” This one question will help you so much evaluating your current relationships.

I challenge you to not spend your time deciding who must go but on who must stay. I go through my cell phone once a month to remind me who I haven’t been in touch with in awhile. I also send birthday wishes and try to contact everyone at least once a month. I want the people in my life who lift me to know I care and make an effort to keep them in my life.

Naturally focusing on building and maintaining the relationships I want in my life, I have less and less time to give to the relationships which hold be down in life so they start to drift away.

You do not need to dwell on what is wrong in your life, simply by looking at what is right causes you to spend all your time and effort on positive changes.

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