Paris Hilton wrote a song about it on her CD. It was about her friendship with Nicole Richie from her point of view. The song goes over how Nicole was jealous of her but writing a song about it makes me think maybe she was jealous too…

 What is jealousy? I feel it is when you want something someone else has. This can be an accomplishment,  relationships, personal item, etc. Well, if they have something you want, why can’t you get it yourself?

 It all comes from how you look at it. You can chose to be jealous that someone has something you don’t and throw yourself a pity party or you can realize that you want what they have so ask them how they got it. Maybe you just need to figure out a plan on your own on how to get it. This is an opportunity where you can learn how to make things happen for you and now you just need to do the work to get it done.

 It is easy to give up and blame others for how you feel or what you do not have. What if you take the time to figure out how to get what you want? If you want it bad enough, it should be worth the work. Stop dwelling on not having it and starting planning on how to get it. The faster you do this, the faster you will achieve what you want. It is going to be so much better when you achieve what you want on your own. Then it is yours and there is nothing to be jealous about.

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