A friend of mine was talking to me about a friendship she has. She has put so much effort into making the friendship work but it is just not going anywhere. There are always excuses about why the friend can not make it to events or parties or she says she is coming and doesn’t show up. My friend really wants to keep being friends but just had to say enough is enough.

She finally told the friend how she felt and left the ball in her court to take the next step to build a friendship.  She asked me if I thought this was wrong of her. I told her I think it was the best thing you can do. Why should you be working so hard to maintain a relationship when the other party obviously doesn’t want to? By ending this relationship, you allowing yourself to put my effort into your other healthy friendships and probably make even healthier friendships down the road.  

Think about your life and the friendships you keep that are unhealthy for you. Are they worth all the damage they cause on you and your other relationships? Free yourself and open yourself up to more healthy relationships. You deserve it.

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