Recently, I have had a lot of people tell me it is hard to make friends. I was surprised by this because I never thought is was hard to make friends. I always seemed to have new friends wherever I went.

What I did notice was that I had friends who were around for a moment in my life and friends who have been around for what seems all my life. I do not believe this is a bad thing. I think it just means you were friends when the situation dictated it and then you grew apart when your life changed.

Finding friends is a lot like looking for love. You can look and look and look but it only happens when you least expect it and you just know it is right in that moment. The moment you connect and realize, we are going to be friends. You can’t force or or even try to create it, because it just happens. Some people are meant to be our friends and others are not.

Does this mean you can not make friends? NO. It means first you have to accept that not everyone is a good friend for you. The next step is to learn how to be a good friend…

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