Relationships are not like the movies. A movie tells us about the struggles it takes to find love. They work so hard to find each other but something causes them to miss each other or have a misunderstanding and they lose each other. Finally at the end, they find love and commitment and the movie ends…

In real life, that is when the work begins. It is not easy being with someone in a relationship. You have to learn to communicate, set goals, and put up with each other. It really comes down to making each other happy.

How do you make each other happy? I do not know, you have to ask them. It is not about assuming what makes them happy, it is about asking them and finding out.

I believe we work in our lives to always be happier. Relationships end because we are no longer happy in them. As long as we have conversations, as a couple, about what makes us happy, we should be able to grow and achieve happiness together. Our relationships will grow as well.

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At midnight, last night, I had “Sex” and it was GOOD! I have missed spending time with 4 of my favorite girls and it was great to see them again.

 Steph, Molly, Justin and I went to the midnight showing of Sex and the City: The Movie. Was it worth feeling so tired the next day? YES! Could I come up with thousands of ways to make it better? OF COURSE! Any true fan will want more and try to create it because we never want to let go. It was a great movie and I am glad to spend one more night with the girls.

The theme for the movie is love. It is true that when you are in love you will do things you never expected. Life changes when you are in love. You forgot about yourself and become a “we”.

Sometimes this “we” is more powerful than yourself alone and sometimes this “we” can cause you to lose the all important “me”. It is finding the balance that makes it work. I will not say it is easy to do so but it is just the ebb and flow of being in a relationship. If you are in love, you will make it work.

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